Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Richard Hillyer with the following comment:
John R Hillyer was married to Sarah Ellen Mussell who was a granddaughter of my great great great grandfather. She appears to have married again 12 years after a John’s death but in 1939 is living with someone with same surname as 2nd husband. I hope something on John’s gravestone might give clue as to why.